What is Success ?

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The definition for Success for different individuals is not the same. 

For me, I would consider I have succeeded when :

  • I am happy with what I do;
  • I am able to contribute back to the society; and
  • I am being loved and respected by others
These are closely related to being able to have a positive attitude towards life.
I feel that, there is no right or wrong to how each person defines success, as long as he is happy with his life, and as long as it does not involve hurting others.


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