A Small dose of Interesting People 1

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The curved driveway at my lift lobby is very narrow.  I would usually tell the cab driver to drive straight and let me alight without navigating into the driveway.  I was trying to be nice, so that the driver need not end up getting his car scratched by the pillars.  

Then there was once I said the same thing to a driver and explained the reason to him.  He jokingly replied: "If I don’t drive in, I won’t be able to show off my steering skills!"  And he steered his way through very nicely and alighted me without a scratch to the car.  I clapped.

Moral of the story:  You can always try to be nice, but you will never guess what others have on their mind.

So it is good to have an open mind, and not let our mindset/prejudice determines the outcome.  Watch our tone when speaking, and explain the rationale wherever possible and appropriate. Many unhappiness happens because of miscommunications or misunderstanding.

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