Another example of doing what we love. SL liked flying since young, probably after watching the movie Top Gun. He also told me he liked being a fireman. He flew with the SAF after graduating, and is now converting over to a commercial pilot.
So, again, are you doing what you like? Do you know your passion?
Murphy' Law states : If anything can go wrong, it will go wrong. Murphy used his law to solve problems in his engineering work, but I have been interpreting it literally, to improve our life. I will use two simple examples to illustrate. I have friends who told me that they are very careful on the road, and that they will not get into accidents. Here's briefly how I explained to them: Murphy's Law : If an accident can happen, it will happen. Why : It is not just about how careful we are, but also about how careless other drivers are. What : There may be drivers who beat the red light, or are too busy on the phone while driving, or worse, drunk. How : Besides following all traffic rules (what we can control), we also need to look out for signs of danger (mitigate what we cannot control). Like a speeding car, a dazed pedestrian, an obstruction on the road. Hence, we need to focus on the driving, keep an eye on the surrounding, instead of chatting with other passengers while...
Came across something interesting from a TV program. The rice plant is one of the most successful plant species on earth, because man's successful cultivation of rice ensures the rice survival as a species. The rice plants hence do not need to compete with other plant species for space and nutrients, because all these are taken care of by human beings. On top of that, humans develop better rice varieties that are drought/pest resistant etc. This can be said of many other plant species that human beings consume too. What about animals? Using the same thinking, many animals also ensured their survival as a species by being useful to the humans, like the chicken. The chicken will not be hunted to extinction by predators. They are propagated by human beings in a safe environment, and chicks being hatched and raised in assisted methods. This ensures their survival as a species. But the question that I keep asking myself is, would you consider your species ...
In the course of my work, I have come across hundreds of teenagers and spoken with many of their parents (including mediation between child and parents). I have thus sort of gathered the factors for raising a child to be a good and useful person. They say it takes a village to raise a child. But from my experience, I would say this can be done by just a few good role models in the child's life. I know of a lady who was divorced after five years of marriage. She worked, and with the help of her parents, raised her son. The young man is one of the few matured thinking persons of his age that I have met. He knows how to comfort others, does not spend a lot of time on the mobile phone at gatherings, is thoughtful and sociable. Of course, whether the character and personality of a person is the effect of nature or nurture calls for debate. But here, we focus on what is within our control. Some factors crucial to effective raising of a child: Showing ...
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