Another example of doing what we love. SL liked flying since young, probably after watching the movie Top Gun. He also told me he liked being a fireman. He flew with the SAF after graduating, and is now converting over to a commercial pilot.
So, again, are you doing what you like? Do you know your passion?
36 Chinese Stratagems (三十六计) is a set of 6 x 6 techniques, a collection of ancient Chinese military and civil interaction tactics. It was based on fighting the enemies and dealing with people, hence a lot to learn from and to apply in our daily life. What I like most is the last strategy 走为上策, literally, Leaving (running away) . Like the Chinese say, it is the best strategy. Practical applications: - to avoid confrontations, arguments - to escape from embarrassing situations - to run away from aggressive sales pitch - to prevent further losses - to get out of likely being played in a mind-game Many people cannot just leave it, due to pride and the need to win. It doesn't mean we will become a loser because we avoided confrontations. My general rule is, things we cannot control (other peoples' actions), we avoid . Some examples: 1. Many years ago I was in a taxi where the driver kept on rambling on his dissatisfaction with the government. I liste...
Murphy' Law states : If anything can go wrong, it will go wrong. Murphy used his law to solve problems in his engineering work, but I have been interpreting it literally, to improve our life. I will use two simple examples to illustrate. I have friends who told me that they are very careful on the road, and that they will not get into accidents. Here's briefly how I explained to them: Murphy's Law : If an accident can happen, it will happen. Why : It is not just about how careful we are, but also about how careless other drivers are. What : There may be drivers who beat the red light, or are too busy on the phone while driving, or worse, drunk. How : Besides following all traffic rules (what we can control), we also need to look out for signs of danger (mitigate what we cannot control). Like a speeding car, a dazed pedestrian, an obstruction on the road. Hence, we need to focus on the driving, keep an eye on the surrounding, instead of chatting with other passengers while...
There is a saying : If you give a man a fish, you feed him for a day. If you teach a man to fish, you feed him for life. There are TV shows everywhere in the world showing them giving people a new home or make over of the home, because the houses were cluttered and run down. In one show, they revisited the homes of those they helped renovate a year ago. Most of the homes' condition were acceptable. But of those who were cluttered again, one owner responded :"It's only a small mess..." On the other hand, there are TV shows that teach people how to declutter their house, and also revisiting them later on to check on them. In my opinion, teaching people to declutter is definitely more meaningful than to give people a renovation for free. Because, if they don't get it, they don't get it. We can apply this understanding when we educate the young in our schools and at home. When a kid falls down, let the kid pick himself/herself up, instead of rushing to help ...
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